Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear.
– George Addair
Meaning of this quote:
Courage is everything. This is what enables one to initiate the first step towards the journey of something big. While the lack of it is what stops the most to start to begin with the very first step.
There are two types of fear. The first one is the real one which helps to stop doing something which can potentially damage ourselves or others. For example, Fear of crashing the vehicle is what helps the drivers to follow the speed limit.
While the other type of fear is the imaginary one which might only exist in our head. For example, Negative self-talk is what demotivates the one by creating the self-doughts. And this is what in the end stops the one from beginning with something new which they always wanted to do it.
And so this is how negative self-talk or imaginary fear can stop us from doing something which we always aim for, and this is what limits our vision. Everyone has a great idea in their mind, but what everyone does not have is the courage to pursue those ideas. Therefore, In the end, It’s the Imaginary fear or self-doubts that stops one from turning their idea into a reality.
Courage is the best answer to conquer self-doubts
When one is driven by courage, desire, and strong willpower, nothing can stop them to start to beginning with the first step. Remember, starting the first step is not easy, especially when you’re not used to something or something which you’ve never experienced before.
But courage is what motivates and pushes to take the first step, and taking the first step is the best way to burst the bubble of fear. And once we keep doing it, It forms into a new habit and we get used to it. Just, take the example of a stage performance or public speaking.
He who is not everyday conquering some fear has not learned the secret of life.
– Ralph Waldo Emerson
Don’t let fear or self-negative talks control everything including the final outcome. Don’t get consumed by the negativity. When you think or believe that you’re not good enough, just self-reflect yourself and make sure to try to clear your own doubts, In order to rectify the self-negative talks.
Never live with fear or anxiety. We live in a work of social media where comparing ourselves with others is a new normal. Everyone has their own insecurities. Don’t shy away from looking for help when you need it the most. Remember, there is nothing that we can’t fix, there is always a way, just try to look for help from your friends or even from the professionals.
Be open up about your insecurities, self-doughts, and anxiety. You’re not alone, everyone faces it at some point in their life. Things can get changed and they can get improved when you find the courage to share them with others.
Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear
Our mind is too complex, everyone claims to have 100% control over their mind, but the reality is it’s too hard or almost impossible. Our thoughts can be automated based on past events or based on how we perceive others or life in general.
We are driven by our brain, our life is a reflection of our thoughts and actions. Re-shape your thoughts and It will re-shape your life. It’s definitely easy to say than Implement, but it’s definitely worth trying to control the self-negative thoughts and replace them with positive action-oriented thoughts that can potentially help to rectify any possible issues or even self-doughts.
Don’t let fear of failure or fear of challenges limits your vision. Never let your thoughts produce problems that are even bigger than the real ones. Sometimes we tend to visualize issues that are quite bigger than the one which exists in reality.
Never over-visualize or overthink anything. If you have a great goal in your mind, why don’t you plan out the execution and set the roadmap? In the end, this is what brings the clarity, and without them, It’s really easy to lose the direction, and once we lose that, it’s starts really getting tough and that’s what leads to overthinking.
Always believe in creating precise and clear action steps or roadmap which allows you to pursue your goals but with the greatest clarity. Without them, everything looks fuzzy, and that’s certainly the best way to lose the path.
The objective is what you need to keep moving forward towards the destination of your goals or dreams. Without it, it’s really easy to lose motivation.
Indeed passion is glamourous and nothing can beat the level of happiness which it brings when one not just follows their passion, but also works strategically which can really create great results.
My definition of courage is never letting anyone define you.
– Jenna Jameson